
Exodus
A Memoir
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Deborah Feldman
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Deborah Feldman
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In 2009, at the age of 23, Deborah Feldman packed up her young son and their few possessions and walked away from her insular Hasidic roots. She was determined to forge a better life for herself, away from the rampant oppression, abuse, and isolation of her Satmar upbringing in Williamsburg, Brooklyn. Out of her experience came the incendiary, best-selling memoir Unorthodox, and now, just a few years later, Feldman has embarked on a triumphant journey of self-discovery - a journey in which she begins life anew as a single mother, an independent woman, and a religious refugee.
Taking her cues from favorite childhood books read in secret and the modern classics only recently introduced to her, Feldman explores the United States, from San Francisco to Chicago, New Orleans, and the Southwest. In her travels, and at home, Feldman redefines her sense of identity - no longer Orthodox, she comes to terms with her Jewishness by discovering a world of like-minded outcasts and misfits committed to self-acceptance and healing. Inwardly, Feldman has navigated remarkable experiences: raising her son in the “real” world, finding solace and solitude in a writing career, and searching for love.
Culminating in an unforgettable trip across Europe to retrace her grandmother’s life during the Holocaust, Exodus is a deeply moving exploration of the mysterious bonds that tie us to family and religion, the bonds we must sometimes break to find our true selves. Feldman proves herself again to be a captivating storyteller, and her singular life has been an inspiration to countless others and for listeners everywhere.
©2014 Deborah Feldman (P)2014 Penguin AudioA Must read
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Very detailed story
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obsession with self
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I enjoyed exodus but selfishly I wanted to relate to it more but I didn’t. Not to say I didn’t enjoy it. It was still comforting to hear her finding forms of peace in her journey.
An interesting read to find out what life went on to be for Deborah.
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A self-discovery journey
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Wonderful!
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I had seen there is a revised version of this. i will wait a year before watching
Go for the revised version
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Deborah’s story is all that more extraordinary because she literally started from the bottom and worked her way up, above and beyond all the obstacles which could so easily have prevented her success. Her books are well written and convey a sincerity and truthful honesty which draws the reader in. My only criticism would be that I would have liked, particularly in the follow-up book Exodus, there to have been more detail about her life and how she navigated it post orthodoxy.
Awesome
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I’ll start with the good: the first 3/4s of the book is pretty decent. It’s interesting to have a coda to Unorthodox and see Deborah’s journey after she left her Hasidic community. She is a flawed person, and she’s bold enough to show that.
That said, the final 1/4 ruin the book and make me seriously regret ever reading it. Spoilers from here on out.
So, she starts role playing with German men that they’re Nazis and she’s being stopped and harassed by them. That is shocking, but some kinks are. I’m also of the opinion that as long as everything is safe, sane, and consensual people can do whatever they like. The problem is, these role plays don’t feel entirely consensual. While I don’t expect an ex-Hasidic Jew to know the finer points of consent and after care in BDSM (even knowing a pro dome from her uni days), she should have realised there was something she needed to look into after her first encounter.
This unfortunately escalated into the final relationship she talks about in the book in which she perpetrates some of the absolute worst emotional abuse I’ve ever heard recounted by an abuser. I kept waiting for her to have an epiphany that her behaviour is utterly reprehensible, but it never does. She’s abusive to her boyfriend, she’s abusive to his mum when they visit her in New York, and she just dumps him. The only comfort is knowing this guy is free from her.
If you liked Unorthodox, this is not remotely the same type of story. I highly recommend finding a different memoir
The first book was about her abuse, the second book is about her being an abuser
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Nothing like the first book
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