
Out of the Shadows
The Psychology of Gay Men's Lives
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Narrated by:
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Will Damron
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By:
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Walt Odets
About this listen
Penguin presents the audiobook edition of Out of the Shadows: Reimagining Gay Men's Lives, by Walt Odets, read by Will Damron.
Even in our modern progressive world, it's not easy to be a gay man. While young men often come out more readily, even those from the most liberal of backgrounds still struggle to accept themselves and experience stigma, shame and difficulties with intimate relationships. They also suffer from ongoing trauma wrought by the AIDS epidemic, something that is all too often relegated to history.
Drawing on a lifetime's work as a clinical psychologist, Walt Odets uses the stories of his patients as well as those of his own deep relationships with other gay men to illuminate how these difficulties may be overcome. From a 74-year-old who felt able to come out only after his wife had died, to the boy raised in a strict religious family who worked his way to San Francisco, to the middle-aged defence lawyer who left everything behind to embrace a new life, the experiences here explore everything from grief to survival, childhood pain to the definition of gay itself.
Out of the Shadows shows us how a new way forward is possible through learning to accept ourselves and others as they are, and independently inventing our own lives.
©2019 Walt Odets (P)2019 Penguin AudioA unique thought-provoking book
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I cried many tears, had my heart pulled, gut punched but in a way I have never experienced before. For me there was the authentic spirit and hope that ran throughout. This book now means so much to me and I think EVERYONE from all different communities could learn so much. There are themes here that I will be taking to therapy to work on myself, things that I now feel I have been woken up to. Connecting some dots for me on society's impact on LGBTQIA people like myself has been a revelation. Some of it is obvious but some of it is in the unconscious. Through the stories of others we can grow. I am beyond grateful for the men who has been before me and fought for the rights we have today. My gratitude holds no bounds.
Strap yourself in, get the tissues ready, open your heart and be prepared to see... really see.
This is everything
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A great insightfull book. A must read.
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Superb
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Thought provoking but not without it biases
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A transformational work, beautifully written by a psychologist who is clearly dedicated to reimagining gay men’s lives.
Spectacularly moving
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