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Where the Children Take Us

How One Family Achieved the Unimaginable

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Where the Children Take Us

By: Zain E. Asher
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In this spellbinding memoir, popular CNN anchor Zain Asher pays tribute to her mother’s strength and determination to raise four successful children in the shadow of tragedy.

Awaiting the return of her husband and young son from a road trip, Obiajulu Ejiofor receives shattering news. There’s been a fatal car crash, and one of them is dead.

In Where the Children Take Us, Obiajulu’s daughter, Zain E. Asher, tells the story of her mother’s harrowing fight to raise four children as a widowed immigrant in South London. Drawing on tough-love parenting strategies, Obiajulu teaches her sons and daughters to overcome the daily pressures of poverty, crime and prejudice – and much more. With her relentless support, the children exceed all expectations – becoming a CNN anchor, an Oscar-nominated actor – Asher’s older brother is Chiwetel Ejiofor (12 Year A Slave) – a doctor and a thriving entrepreneur.

The generations-old Nigerian parenting techniques that lead to the family's salvation were born in the village where young Obiajulu and Arinze meet with their country on the brink of war. Together, they emigrate to London in the 1970s to escape the violence, but soon confront a different set of challenges in the West.

When grief threatens to engulf her fractured family after the accident, Obiajulu, suddenly a single mother in a foreign land, refuses to accept defeat. As her children veer down the wrong path, she instills a family book club with Western literary classics, testing their resolve and challenging their deeper understanding. She plasters newspaper clippings of Black success stories on the walls, all while running Shakespeare theatre lines with her son and finishing homework into the early morning with Zain. When distractions persist, she cuts the TV cord and installs a residential pay phone.

The story of a woman who survived genocide, famine, poverty and crushing grief to rise from war torn Africa to the streets of South London and eventually the drawing rooms of Buckingham Palace,Where the Children Take Us is an unforgettable portrait of strength, tenacity, love and perseverance embodied in one towering woman.

©2022 Zain Ejiofor Peoples (P)2022 HarperCollins Publishers
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‘A deeply moving and riveting memoir. The courage and resilience displayed by Zain Asher's mother leave a lasting impression, and offer valuable lessons for raising a family no matter the circumstances’
Arianna Huffington, Founder & CEO, Thrive Global

‘This powerful and beautiful memoir has so many of the aspects of life we relate to, sincerely appreciate, and remind us of the depths of our humanity. Overcoming tragedy, the strength in family, and the unstoppable spirit of a mother who made the greatest sacrifice to better the lives of her children’
Common, Academy Award and Grammy Award winning actor/rapper and New York Times best-selling author

‘A heartwarming love letter to a mother who miraculously pushes through tragedy to steer her children toward their seemingly impossible dreams, through a methodology all her own’
David Oyelowo, Golden Globe nominated actor, Selma

‘An incredible personal story of tragedy, triumph and what's possible when you persevere, while keeping a firm hold on who you are and where you come from."
Don Cheadle, award-winning actor, producer and director

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Outstanding story!

This was such an epic book that captures the strength of an African mum and an outstanding family as a result of the sacrifices and love of a mother.
So relatable and good to see success shown in this manner.

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Absolutely brilliant!!!

I finished this book in 2 days - held me spellbound! Great story, inspiring on so many levels. Thank you Zain Asher for writing this book, for sharing your family's story with such clarity and authenticity.

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Wine or raisins?

Living in a generation in which ‘raisin lifestyle’ is emphasised, encouraged and popularised, this book highlights the difference between the process of grapes becoming a fine wine and grapes becoming raisins. How refreshing.

When vision meets reality there is often much friction. Most decide to give up on their vision. Not so in this story. Zain Asher’s mother has been the unsung heroine of the successful children raised, to the most part, single handed.

What a beautiful expression of gratitude and respect. So many lessons to be learned from this book. I will be combing through it again with my children.

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Oh wow!!!!!

Such amazing story and storytelling! I savoured every word, every line. Cried a lot too but even more determined to leave my mark. You never know where your children will take you! I’m from Enugu, grew up in Abakpa Nike and moved to England. She couldn’t have told the stories any better. Your mum is a hero, Zane!

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Awestruck by this powerful story.

powerful story, beautifully written and narrated - always even lovelier listening to an audiobook narrated by the author. So inspiring. I hope I can be a mother that is even a fraction as supportive, insightful and strong as the author’s. Unforgettable.

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Amazing & Inspiring

Loved and could relate to every bit of it. A lot to learn as well.

Will be very useful to most Nigerians, Africans & minorities in diaspora. Also useful for single parents & everyone in general.

Thanks Zain for not just sharing your private family moments but also for the knowledge.

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