You’ve got the house, the business, the income. From the outside, it looks like you’ve made it. But deep down, there’s a weight. A quiet tension. A voice that keeps asking, “Is this really the freedom I was chasing?”

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In this episode, Ryan James Miller speaks directly to high-achieving, faith-driven men who are silently battling a sobering truth: success has come at the cost of connection.

Key Topics Covered:

• The hidden trade-offs between entrepreneurial success and relational neglect
• Why freedom isn’t just a systems issue—it’s a home issue
• The lie we tell ourselves: “I’m doing this for them”
• How over-identifying with your business robs you of intimacy, peace, and legacy
• The Closing the GAP framework (God-Aligned Purpose) to regain presence, identity, and intentionality

Challenge from this episode: Plan one intentional midweek date or family experience in the next 30 days. No email. No meetings. Just you—the man they want more than anything.

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Most men think their biggest constraint is cash flow, leads, or a sharper playbook. The truth? The real bottleneck is staring back in the mirror.

Ready to find out if you’re the silent choke point holding your business, family, and faith back?

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In this episode of Unlocking Greatness, Ryan James Miller pulls back the curtain on the hidden fragility inside even the most “successful” entrepreneurs. He shares how a client who hit every financial milestone still found himself chained tighter to his business, more exhausted, and more hollow inside than ever before.

Key topics in this conversation:

• Why your obsession with scale, systems, and freedom often hides the real problem—your fragile identity.
• The dangerous trap of building a business that can’t run without you.
• The truth that your business will never be stronger than the man who leads it.
• How your self-worth, control issues, and hidden pride sabotage your freedom.
• Why standard operating procedures and smart hires alone won’t fix what’s broken inside.

Ryan challenges high-level entrepreneurs to close the GAP—Grounded in Faith, Authentic in Action, Purposeful in Pursuit—so they can remove themselves as the bottleneck and build something unshakeable.

What if you stepped away for 30 days—what would break?

Does your identity crumble when the business isn’t thriving?

Who are you becoming beneath the hustle?

This episode is a wake-up call to anchor your success in Christ, admit where you’re weak, and rebuild on a foundation that will stand when your systems can’t.

One of the core takeaways: “If the man is fragile, the business stays fragile.” Fix the man, and the freedom you crave becomes possible.

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Are you chasing success while quietly falling apart behind closed doors?

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In this raw and transformational episode of Unlocking Greatness, Ryan confronts a painful but powerful truth: too many high-performing men are admired in public yet crumbling in private. If you're winning in business but losing in your marriage, family, or faith, this conversation will hit home.

You’ll discover:

• Why image is easy, but integrity is hard
• How public success can mask deep private disconnection
• The danger of outsourcing your worth to performance metrics
• Why your wife and kids are the real scoreboard
• Three daily habits to help you realign with who God created you to be

Ryan also shares personal stories from seasons of deep misalignment—where outward success came at the cost of internal peace. He outlines how the Closing the GAP framework helps men live aligned rather than admired, offering a redemptive path forward.

Three practical steps to apply today:

• Grounded in Faith: Start each day in Scripture
• Authentic in Action: Intentionally compliment your wife
• Purposeful in Pursuit: Put your phone away and be present at dinner

If you've been performing publicly and avoiding truth privately, it’s time to close the gap and lead from a place of wholeness.

And check out the links below to learn more about how we can help you achieve greatness.

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Become a Man of Greatness by downloading our workbook - https://coach.ryanjamesmiller.com/men-of-greatness-workbook

Become a Man of Greatness by joining our Community - https://coach.ryanjamesmiller.com/mog

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