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Bossing Up: Overcoming OCD

Bossing Up: Overcoming OCD

By: Erin Davis
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Are you tired of overthinking every relationship? Do you worry your partner will leave? Feel anxious about love? You’re not broken. You’re not too much. And you’re definitely not alone. This show is for smart women who are tired of relationship anxiety. Women who want to stop the constant worry and finally feel secure in love. You’ll learn how to: ➡️ Stop overthinking everything your partner says ➡️ Break free from toxic relationship patterns ➡️ Feel confident in love without needing constant reassurance ➡️ Trust yourself to make good relationship choices ➡️ Heal from past relationship trauma ➡️ Build the secure, loving relationship you deserve Whether you’re single and scared to date, in a relationship but always worried, or stuck in toxic patterns - this podcast will help you find peace. I’m Erin Davis, a licensed therapist who helps high-achieving women overcome relationship OCD, intrusive thoughts, and dating anxiety. I’ve helped hundreds of women go from anxious and overthinking to confident and secure in love. Stop letting fear control your love life. You deserve to feel safe, loved, and secure. New episodes every week with real tools that actually work. Ready to quiet your mind and strengthen your relationships? Start listening now. Chat with Erin On Demand to ask your burning relationship questions today at https://bit.ly/erin-aiLive Beyond Doubt LLC Hygiene & Healthy Living Psychology Psychology & Mental Health
Episodes
  • The OCD Fear No One Talks About: "What If I’m a Narcissist?" | Ep 85
    Jul 15 2025

    "Am I a narcissist… or is it something else?" You're the type of woman who double-checks every email, text, or conversation for signs that you hurt someone… even if they said “no worries.”

    If you're a high-achieving woman spiraling over whether you're secretly narcissistic, this episode is for you. I'm unpacking the viral fear that’s gripping perfectionists, people-pleasers, and overthinkers everywhere: when OCD makes you doubt your core character.

    I'll break down how moral scrupulosity OCD can convince brilliant, empathetic women that they’re toxic or worse: selfish, when nothing could be further from the truth. You'll hear the real diagnostic criteria for narcissistic personality disorder, how it differs from obsessive self-doubt, and why successful women are more vulnerable to this specific intrusive fear.

    I share how this fear shows up in daily life, especially in relationships, and offer concrete validation if you’ve ever wondered: “What if I’m a bad person?” This is part one in my series on narcissism myths, OCD, and the pressure to be perfect.

    Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction and Today’s Topic 00:10 Understanding Narcissism 00:41 High Achievers and Narcissistic Fears 02:22 OCD vs. Narcissism 02:59 Diagnostic Criteria for Narcissism 04:15 Relationship OCD and Reassurance Seeking 05:25 Narcissistic Traits Explained 08:38 Conclusion and Upcoming Episodes

    🎯 READY TO STOP LETTING ANXIETY STEAL YOUR SUMMER? Join my FREE masterclass "Do I Really Love Them… or Is It Just OCD?" and break free from the mental prison: https://livebeyonddoubt.com/webinar-registration-erin

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    💬 From overthinking to clarity in one download. Get my FREE “30 Scripts for Difficult Conversations” guide and stop wondering what to say in those make-or-break moments. Transform your communication now → https://bit.ly/30scriptsfree

    Affiliate links may be included, supporting my content at no extra cost to you.

    *This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

    DISCLAIMER: https://bit.ly/3ycFiY4

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    9 mins
  • Anxiety Hack with Lauren | Ep 84
    Jul 8 2025

    Are you tired of feeling overwhelmed by anxiety? In this transformative episode, I chat with tapping expert Lauren, who shares how Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) can help you silence the anxiety and rediscover a sense of relief!

    Lauren talks about how she helped a woman with elevator phobia!

    🎯 What You'll Discover: - The Power of Tapping: Learn how tapping can help you release emotional blockages and reduce anxiety in just minutes! ✋💖 - Real-Life Success Stories: Hear inspiring stories of individuals who transformed their lives through tapping techniques. 📖✨ - Step-by-Step Guidance: Get practical tips on how to incorporate tapping into your daily routine for lasting relief. 🗓️💪

    🔑 Key Takeaways: - Understanding EFT: What is Emotional Freedom Techniques and how does it work? 🤔 - Tapping Points: Discover the key tapping points and how to use them effectively. 📍 - Mind-Body Connection: Explore the science behind tapping and its impact on your mental health. 🧠💫

    💬 Join the Conversation: If you found this episode helpful, please share it with someone who might benefit! Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review!

    🔗 FREE RESOURCE: Feeling overwhelmed by relationship anxiety? Download "The Overthinker's Guide to Love" and discover the 5 biggest mistakes that fuel relationship anxiety: https://livebeyonddoubt.com/overthinkersguidetolove

    🎯 Upcoming Webinar: Join my FREE webinar "The First Step to Finding Peace in your Relationship" and learn how to break free from the mental prison: https://livebeyonddoubt.com/webinar-registration-erin

    This episode is packed with insights and practical advice that can help you tap into your inner strength and find peace. Tune in now! 🎧

    #tapping #EFT #anxietyrelief #mentalhealth #selfhelp #Lauren #emotionalfreedom #mindfulness #selfcare #overthinking #relationshipanxiety

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    15 mins
  • Stop letting fireworks remind you of what's missing in your relationship! 💔 | Ep 83
    Jul 1 2025

    🎆 Break Free from Relationship Anxiety This July 4th

    While everyone else is celebrating freedom, you might be feeling more trapped than ever by your anxious thoughts. But what if this July 4th could be the day you declare independence from the mental prison that's keeping you stuck?

    If you're at barbecues surrounded by happy couples and your brain starts spiraling with "Why don't I have that?" or "What's wrong with us?" - this episode is your lifeline! 🆘

    🎯 In this episode, you'll discover: 00:00 Introduction: Fireworks and Relationship Anxiety 01:04 Why July 4th can feel like the WORST holiday when you have relationship anxiety 😰 02:25 The truth about why your "protective" thoughts are actually keeping you trapped🔒 03:52 How to stop comparing your behind-the-scenes to everyone's highlight reel📱 05:59 5 practical strategies to choose presence over analysis paralysis ✨ 07:27 Celebrate Your Independence 07:59 Conclusion and Free Course Offer

    📖 FEELING TRIGGERED BY COUPLE SEASON? Get my FREE "Overthinker's Guide to Love" and learn the 5 biggest mistakes that fuel relationship anxiety: https://livebeyonddoubt.com/overthinkersguidetolove

    🔥 Why this episode hits different: Your obsessive thoughts aren't protecting you - they're stealing your joy! While you're busy analyzing whether your relationship is "perfect enough," you're missing the actual relationship happening right in front of you. 💕

    💪 Your freedom toolkit: ✅ Name your comparison triggers before they spiral ✅ Remember: thoughts are like fireworks - loud but temporary ✅ Redirect to your values instead of relationship analysis ✅ Choose ONE small act of presence at every gathering ✅ Give yourself credit for choosing connection over comparison

    🎯 READY TO STOP LETTING ANXIETY STEAL YOUR SUMMER? Join my FREE webinar "The First Step to Understanding Relationship OCD" and break free from the mental prison: https://livebeyonddoubt.com/webinar-registration-erin

    This July 4th, don't just watch the fireworks - BE the fireworks! Be bright, bold, and beautifully imperfect. You don't need permission from your anxiety to enjoy your life. You don't need certainty to celebrate love. 🌟

    Remember: You're not too much, you're not broken, and you deserve to celebrate love without needing it to be perfect! 💖

    Affiliate links may be included, supporting my content at no extra cost to you.

    This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

    DISCLAIMER: https://bit.ly/3ycFiY4

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    9 mins
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