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Childhood and the Enneagram : The Stories that Shape Us

Childhood and the Enneagram : The Stories that Shape Us

By: Susan Parker Jones LPCC NCC
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Childhood and the Enneagram: Stories That Shape Us is a podcast for parents, educators, therapists, and anyone ready to heal their story and help others do the same.

Hosted by licensed therapist, Enneagram practitioner, and author Susan Parker Jones, this series explores how our earliest experiences shape the way we see ourselves, relate to others, and show up for the next generation.

Grounded in attachment theory, trauma-informed care, and the Harmony Model of the Enneagram, each episode unpacks the unconscious narratives we carry from childhood — and how those stories show up in our parenting, leadership, and self-talk.

Through real-life reflections, practical tools, and compassionate insight, you’ll learn how to:

  • Recognize and rewrite your Inner Childhood Narrative (ICN)
  • Understand children’s behavior through the lens of connection and nervous system safety
  • Use Enneagram wisdom to foster emotional growth and secure relationships
  • Break generational patterns with clarity, presence, and grace

Because healing your story is where generational change begins — and every small shift has the power to create lasting transformation.

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Episodes
  • Can I Trust You or Do I Need to Take Charge? Raising an Emerging Type 8
    Jun 16 2025

    What does it mean to raise—or be—a Type 8? In this episode, Susan Parker Jones dives deep into the bold, instinctive, and often misunderstood energy of the Type Eight child. Learn how to recognize emerging Eight traits, support your child’s resilience and heart space, and use the Enneagram Harmony Triad (8–2–5) to foster balance. Whether you're raising a strong-willed child or healing your own inner Eight, this episode offers practical insights and heartfelt encouragement for the journey.

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    14 mins
  • More Than a Number: Exploring the Harmony Triads in Parenting
    Jun 5 2025

    In this opening episode of Childhood and the Enneagram, licensed therapist and author Susan Parker Jones lays the foundation for the journey ahead. Discover how the Enneagram—especially through the lens of the Harmony Model—can help us understand the stories we formed in childhood and the patterns we carry into parenting, relationships, and personal growth.

    We’ll explore the three centers of intelligence (Head, Heart, and Body), the emotional dragons of fear, shame, and anger, and how our early coping strategies shape our reactions today. This isn’t about labeling or diagnosing—it’s about deepening compassion, expanding awareness, and beginning to heal the Inner Childhood Narrative that lives in us all.

    Whether you're a parent, educator, therapist, or someone curious about your own story, this episode invites you to reflect, grow, and begin the journey toward greater clarity and connection.

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    11 mins
  • Tip of the Iceberg - Looking Beneath the Behaviors of Children
    May 29 2025

    In this heartfelt episode of Childhood and the Enneagram, Susan Parker Jones invites you to look beneath the surface of children’s behavior and discover what’s really going on inside.

    Whether it’s a tantrum, defiance, or withdrawal, every behavior carries a story — and a need. Drawing from trauma-informed strategies like Trust-Based Relational Intervention (TBRI) and real-life examples, Susan explores how we can move from correction to connection.

    You’ll learn the importance of nervous system safety, emotional regulation, and why “acting out” is often just a child’s way of saying, I don’t have the words yet.

    Plus, a powerful reflection on your own childhood behaviors — and how offering your inner child curiosity instead of criticism can begin the healing process.

    This episode is a must-listen for parents, teachers, therapists, and anyone who’s ever wondered, What’s really going on here?

    Because when we stay curious about the story underneath the behavior, we offer something more than discipline — we offer dignity, safety, and connection.

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    10 mins
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