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Hey my wreckage clearers! Yes, we have anther great episode on our identity. Which could feel like there is a crisis going on when we cover ourselves with this constructed identity. I am here to share with you how from the very moment we were born, our identity is being constructed. The only issue is that it is being formed by others. However, the beauty in this is that it is needed to be formed by others. Simply because there is no way that when you are born that you know who you are, neither do you even know anything at all. You have to be taught things. These things that we are taught help us to create what I like to call "ego structure." Stay with me on this journey as we clear the wreckage in order to grow and evolve into our true identity, our true self.

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Hey My wreckage clearers! In this episode we discuss and dive a little deeper into the my old identity. We talk more about the pain and the pursuit of perfection. I also share with you more details of how I was really feeling at that time when I was grieving myself. I truly was dying and it was meant for me to die. Not a physical death but a mental and emotional death so that I can become spirit. Which is who we truly are but some of us just don't know it yet and we may have to go through some darkness and some pain in order to be reborn. This is the story that you don't want to miss.

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Hey my wreckage clearers! What's up? We got a great episode today where we will discuss the feelings of sorrow and how being abandoned at an early age left a lot of wreckage. Trauma and wounds that I am still to this day healing from and growing. I share with you where these feelings stem from and how it affected my identity later in life. This conversation is gonna be raw, rugged, and transparent as usual. I felt so alone and heart broken once my fiancee left me. Just so happen that my identity was wrapped up in her so much that I felt like I lost a piece of me. Have you ever felt that way? Have you ever felt alone and sad or sorrowful? Have you ever been depressed? have you ever felt so alone that you thought that everyone always leaves? Well, I have and I'm here to share my story with you. I am also here to share how I have cleared the wreckage and am still clearing it. If you want to know how and if you want to know that you are not alone, then this is your episode right here.

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What's up my peeps? In this episode I share with you the process of grief. However, what you may come to find out is that I was truthfully grieving my old identity. My old false self had to come to an end and with that, it is a process. My identity started forming, well in my formative years. Maybe that's why they call it that? I believe that to be true and I lived a life being who everyone else wanted me to be. Have you lived a life like this? Have you felt guilt or shame? Have you felt these emotions more often than not when you felt that you couldn't live up to the standards projected upon you? Do you live a fear based life? Do you walk around pleasing other people? Just as long as they're happy, then you are and you feel good about who you are. I wonder if you are like me? If so, then it is time to clear the wreckage so that we can began the process of death and we can grieve and then ultimately be reborn. Walk with me as I share with you why I had to let go and how you can as well.

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Hey my wreckage clearers! This episode was really hard to do and to be honest I was afraid to share it with you all. However, we must continue to clear the wreckage, therefore I acknowledged that I was in fear and afraid of what you may think of me. Then I admitted that to myself and decided to not allow fear to define my self worth. Yes, this episode is titled weirdly for a reason just trust me. We are going to talk about how I discovered that was completely codependent. I will share with you about the relationship I was in that was psychologically abusive on both parties involved. This is a story that I must share and I had to take you back a little in time for you to understand me just a little bit more. We get real, vulnerable, and downright honest in this episode. It is a rollercoaster full of ups and downs so get ready for this crazy, but yet exciting story as I discovered how codependent I really was.

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Hey World what up? Do you have a place you can go to in order to be renewed? Do you have a place you can go to for restoration? Do you have a place you can go to find some peace? Are you able to sit still in quietness? Well, it took me learning about replacement behaviors from my therapist's before I realized that I had a happy place that I could go to. Then I realized I have several happy spots where I can be for a refresher of the soul. Learning to sit still was also something my therapists guiding me in. the process of breathing, hmmm. So Interesting how that works. My challenge for you is to find a happy place and learn to sit still in quietness. It will help you clear the wreckage. Let's clear it together as we learn how having a happy place and sitting still in quietness will restore our souls and or minds. I don't know about you but I am here to clear the wreckage!!

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Hey World! In this episode I share with you how helping others, helps us. It helps us to feel better about ourselves, and to even feel a sense of purpose in life. It is time to clear the wreckage, as I share with you my wreckage and how at times in the past I allowed it to take over. How when it comes to helping others, I can allow myself to get too much of an ego boost and think that I am the only one who can save or help everyone. That's the wreckage that I share with you in this episode. Also how when I took the time to look inside I was able to see my wreckage, what it was and how I can clear it. In general, when we help others, it also helps them, not just us. Are you ready to see what kind of person you are? I ask a few questions in this episode to see if you know the kind of person you are when it comes to helping other people. There's a challenge at the end of this episode. I pray that we all take the time to look inside so that the wreckage can begin to clear.

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Hey World! In this episode I share with you the story of how I was raised and the structure that was given in the household. From morals, to instructions, to directions. We all were given a set of things to live by, to do, or how to be. To help us later in life in our adulthood become stable and have structure. Faith was instilled in me as a kid. You'll find out in this episode how that faith came to fruition later on in life. I know, everyone says, you should not talk about such things but this is part of my story and how I am clearing the wreckage and you are a part of this journey with me. Come on and join me and find out how me believing in a power greater than me helped me overcome obstacles and clear the wreckage. I'm sure you will love this episode. I keep it real and I continue to be my funny, authentic self. This episode will have you laughing and maybe even crying by the end of it.