We all know someone who manages to avoid fully committing to a relationship, either because we’ve dated them, or someone we love has.

They may say they’re committed to you — they may even identify as being in a relationship — but there are things they Do or Don’t Do that leave you feeling like you’re standing on a house of cards:

• You don’t feel fully integrated into each other’s lives.
• They avoid making plans for the future.
• You feel like you’re chasing. Because you are.

Their behavior is consistent enough for you to catch feelings, but too inconsistent to make you feel secure.

In this episode we drill down on:

• What creates people who can’t fully lean into a committed relationship.
• What creates the people who are drawn to them.
• How to heal both partners.

I know you know someone who has felt this way.

Send them some love by sharing this.

Xxoo Darcy

REFERENCES

How We Feel App-Apple Store

How We Feel App-Google Play Store

Attachment Quiz

The Power of Attachment Book

Darcy’s email: darcy@askdrdarcy.com for Attachment Style Quiz interpretation (be sure you’ve registered on the linked site for this b/c Darcy will need to reference the original results).

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CREDITS

“We Need To Talk With Dr. Darcy Sterling” is a Sterling Standard Production. Editing and sound engineering by Bart Migal. Our theme music is by Trending Music. Special thanks to Amanda Cristiani, Stephanie Sterling, and Preston Smith.

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