“The biggest element is the motivation, because if they are motivated to work on recovery, they will recover well and fast.” - Kiat Yong

The discovery of a spouse’s affair is never a pleasant one, but the road to reconciliation and healing is possible, says Kiat Yong, a seasoned counselor with Focus on the Family Singapore. Kiat Yong delves into the emotional turmoil that both the betrayed and the betrayer experience, while giving hope to couples by clearly laying out the practical steps they can take to rebuild their marriage. Tune in to discover how couples can navigate this storm and emerge stronger!

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“I was all ready to quit after seven years of marriage. The endless communication breakdowns, deep-seated misunderstandings, and growing resentment in me has taken its toll.” - Tricia

(Name has been edited to protect the client’s privacy)

Life can be overwhelming. Having a listening ear can bring relief, help you feel supported, and improve relationships. Make an appointment with a counsellor today. Fees apply. Find our more www.family.org.sg/counselling.

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“I think even just recognising within ourselves at the points that we are totally triggered and need to take a pause from this conversation...” – Grace Chua

Navigating the ups and downs of marriage takes self-awareness, empathy, communication, and teamwork. It's no easy task, whether you're in your first year or have been married for years.

Whether you're dating, thinking of marriage, or married for years, the insights from our three guests, Elvin & Esther Foong, founders of The Treasure Box Singapore, and Grace Ann Chua, founder of htht, will help you strengthen your bond and provide language for everyday struggles.

Tune in to discover how to face love's challenges together!

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A lifetime of love and romance requires intentional effort and attention. Yet in times of busyness and with overwhelming priorities to tend to, our marriages can often take a back seat. No matter the state of your relationship today, we want to help you, and your spouse thrive.

Visit our website at www.family.org.sg/resources for articles and resources today.

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“Dating it's also a journey of self-discovery not just other-discovery… even if it doesn't work out, you come out with a better awareness of who you are as a person.” -Elvin Foong

Dating isn't just about finding the right partner—it's also a journey of self-awareness! The journey towards marriage is one which requires wisdom and perspective from older ones, courage to confront differences, and understanding another’s values and habits.

Tune in to this episode to hear from our three guests, Elvin & Esther Foong, founders of The Treasure Box Singapore, and Grace Ann Chua, founder of htht, as they share their insights on all things dating, marriage and relationships!

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Know of couples who are getting married soon? Do invite them to check out our upcoming Connect2 Marriage Preparation Workshop in November 2024.

Husband-and-wife trainers Nam Seng & Sok Mian will help couples learn to:

• Engage in effective communication and healthy conflict
• Plan and manage family finances well
• Understand sexual intimacy and the importance of romance
• Manage expectations and plan for the future (children, in-laws, work-life)

Couples will benefit from the interactive style of learning, practical tips offered, and deep discussions about topics that are not usually raised in conversations before marriage!

Connect2 Marriage Preparation Workshop

Couples can look forward to two weekday online sessions

and one onsite session on a Saturday.

Register Now: www.family.org.sg/C2MarriagePrep

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“When you think of your household tasks as a way of loving your husband, loving your wife, investing into your shared home, it changes the perspective…” – Elyna

Have you ever felt lost in navigating finances and division of chores in your first year of marriage? Can learning to work out these issues as a team be an opportunity for vulnerability and connection, perhaps even fun?

Tune in to find out how Ernest and Elyna cultivate a safe space in their marriage to work through these issues with creativity and joy!

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Looking for helpful resources to navigate your marriage? Choose from a range of articles and podcasts covering topics such as communication, intimacy, conflict resolution.

Visit www.family.org.sg/resources/marriage and read more.

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"If you value your marriage, you will need to often make sacrifices not to put your individual identity above the collective identity (of the family)." - Ernest Sim

What does it take for two individual lives to come together as one unit in the beautiful union of marriage? How do two differing persons with their unique personalities, preferences and style work synergistically together to create a sum larger than its parts?

Tune in to hear from Ernest and Elyna Sim as they discuss candidly how they adapted to life as one family unit during their first year of marriage!

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A thriving marriage does not just happen. It takes love and effort to keep the romance alive. This September, surprise your spouse with a date where you get to discover new things about each other and deepen your connection over specially curated experiences.

Seats are limited! Register Now at www.family.org.sg/BestDateEver!

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“Why do we make the money we make? What's the vision around the money itself? … how can we make sure that we execute that vision?” – Ng Choon Jin

Our family backgrounds influence our views on money and its role in our lives. This inevitably affects how a married couple manages and uses money, often leading to conflicts. How can we develop a clear and healthy vision for our finances in marriage, and how do we start that conversation with our spouse?

Joining us for this episode is Choon Jin, an ex-accountant turned money coach. Tune in to find out about the remaining 4 money types that describe our relationship with money, and find out which type best describes you.

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Best Date Ever is a date event that will surely bring out your playful sides with fun and engaging activities, alongside various opportunities for you and your spouse to deepen your connection over specially crafted experiences. Discover new things about each other, bond over great food and conversations, and look forward to a great time together!

It's time to re-connect & re-ignite the romance in your marriage at Best Date Ever with your forever date this September! Register Now at www.family.org.sg/BestDateEver!

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“Money, while so fundamental, is nothing more than an enabler... never let the money decision lead your life - always let the life decision lead first, and then the money will be enabling you to do what you need to do”. - Choon Jin

Money can often become a major issue in marriage. Joining us for this episode is Choon Jin, an ex-accountant turned money coach. Tune in to find out about the 4 money types that describe our relationship with money and find out which type best describes you.

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Have you been wanting to take your spouse on a date but haven't found the time to plan something meaningful?

At Best Date Ever, reconnect with your spouse over a delightful meal, fun activities and meaningful conversations in a cosy setting. Look forward to an intimate and engaging experience designed exclusively for married couples to enjoy together!

Regularly dating your spouse nurtures and strengthens your relationship for the long haul. Register your interest at www.family.org.sg/BestDateEver!

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Habits. How do we practise kindness and forgiveness towards our spouse daily?

“Your mind is like a garden. Your thoughts are like seeds. Choose kindness and forgiveness so you don't deal with weeds.”

Tune in to this episode, where our guests Mario and Shalyn share about being quick to listen and slow to react, as well as what to do when we over-react.

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Looking for helpful resources to navigate your marriage? Choose from a range of articles and podcasts covering topics such as communication, intimacy, conflict resolution.

Visit www.family.org.sg/resources/marriage and read more.

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