LOVERS by shan

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  • Lovers by Shan is an education-first space where listeners come to better understand their own intimate lives through the life lessons and expertise of others. Shan’s mission is to empower everyone to be their own intimacy expert in the bedroom and beyond by treating guests of the podcast as educators in their own right. Past guest include Kelly Rowland who taught us about being a sensualist. Becky G who shared the importance of healthy love in an unhealthy body. Kerry Washington who warned about the dangers of keeping secrets. Kamie Crawford who taught us about the joys of breaking up. Jesse Reyez who reminded us that it's alright to admit you're the one who let a good one get away. When we paused in 2023 we had 5.1 million listeners and 8 million YouTube views. Excited to see how many lives we can impact in 2025 with our fresh look and approach.
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  • S2 Ep117: I Lost My Sex Drive Because He Never Did THIS ft Cree Summer

    S2 Ep117: I Lost My Sex Drive Because He Never Did THIS ft Cree Summer
    Apr 30 2025
    In this week’s episode, I sit down with the legendary Cree Summer to talk about her journey through love, loss, and rediscovery in her 50s. Cree opens up about losing her sex drive during her marriage due to a lack of emotional shelter and the importance of finding a partner who provides safety and calm during life’s storms. We also dive into how her sex drive has improved post-menopause and what she’s looking forward to as she explores love again in her senior years. Whether you’re navigating relationships, rethinking intimacy, or seeking inspiration for your own journey, this conversation is a must-listen.


    Episode Highlights:
    • Cree’s reflections on her marriage and why emotional shelter is non-negotiable in a relationship
    • How menopause transformed her sex drive and perspective on intimacy
    • The importance of finding a partner who provides safety and positivity
    • Cree’s hopes and expectations for love in her golden years
    • Lessons on emotional security, provision, and rediscovering self-worth
    • The importance of women making the first move and asking men out


    Thank You Cree Summer
    instagram.com/iamcreesummer
    x.com/iamcreesummer
    https://www.adultswim.com/videos/oh-my-god-yes-a-series-of-extremely-relatable-circumstances

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    If you’re interested in joining the Lovers community, click here to join the waitlist:
    https://www.loversbyshan.com/community

    If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who might need to hear Cree’s powerful story. For more conversations like this, visit LoversByShan.com and join our community for exclusive content, workshops, and more!
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    57 mins
  • S2 Ep116: Don't Waste Your Time With People Like This!

    S2 Ep116: Don't Waste Your Time With People Like This!
    Apr 23 2025
    This is a rare solo episode with just Shan behind the mic—no guests, no distractions. Just her, answering some of your most pressing, unfiltered questions. From personal reflections to deeper dives on topics you’ve been dying to hear her take on, this one’s intimate, insightful, and straight from the heart

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    41 mins
  • S2 Ep115: Soul Ties and Seeking Sacred Love: B. Simone on Chastity and Demisexuality

    S2 Ep115: Soul Ties and Seeking Sacred Love: B. Simone on Chastity and Demisexuality
    Apr 16 2025
    Are you ready to dive deep into the complexities of love, faith, and identity? In this thought-provoking episode, Shan Boodram sits down with B. Simone to discuss the transformative journey of embracing chastity, understanding soul ties, and exploring the nuances of identity and connection.
    While B. Simone does not identify as demisexual, Shan suggests the possibility during their candid conversation, sparking an insightful dialogue about emotional intimacy and sexual attraction. This episode unpacks key topics like:
    ✨ What You’ll Learn:


    • Demisexuality: A sexual orientation where someone experiences sexual attraction only after forming a strong emotional bond.
    • Soul Ties: A deep, often spiritual connection that binds two people, sometimes through shared experiences or intimacy.
    • Chastity: A lifestyle or mindset of aligning one’s sexual behavior and thoughts with personal, moral, or spiritual values, which may or may not involve abstinence.


    Together, Shan and B. Simone explore how devotion to faith, self-love, and personal growth can shape intimate relationships and redefine what it means to truly connect with others.
    Whether you’re curious about demisexuality, seeking clarity on soul ties, or inspired by the intersection of spirituality and sexuality, this episode is packed with insights that will leave you reflecting on your own path to sacred love.
    🎧 Tune in now, and don’t forget to subscribe for more episodes on love, relationships, and self-discovery!


    Thank You B. Simone
    https://www.instagram.com/thebsimone
    Let’s Try This Again: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCz67j2koC3urUkQirbvueCA
    https://www.officialbsimone.com/


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    Thanks Arya for sponsoring this episode:
    Arya is a service for couples that helps them break their sexual routine with the help of an intimacy concierge that serves up curated sexy scenes monthly to sign up or learn more go to
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    54 mins

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Openminded conversations

Shan Boodram opens your mind with conversations you never had or never knew you wanted to have. I appreciate the openess and openminded guests on this show. Although not every episode is for me, I believe it's great that her platforms exists, she shines a light on every aspect of relationships and sexuality. After following Shan Boodram for years she opened my eyes on my own sexuality and my relationships (with myself and the people around me).

She and her guests bring are authentic and bring a part of themself that makes you feel connected. Overall a great concept!♡

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