What is self-forgiveness?

Do we have the power to forgive ourselves?

How then do we move past the shame we have for the things we previously did without self-forgiveness?

Romans 6:20-23

20 For when you were slaves of sin, you were free in regard to righteousness. 21 Therefore what benefit were you then deriving from the things of which you are now ashamed? For the outcome of those things is death. 22 But now having been freed from sin and enslaved to God, you derive your benefit, resulting in sanctification, and the outcome, eternal life. 23 For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.

1 John 1:9

If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

Philippians 3:13

Brethren, I do not regard myself as having laid hold of it yet; but one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and reaching forward to what lies ahead,

Forgiveness of other people in our lives.

Forgiveness is not about what WE GET from it.

How do we walk in forgiveness when it is aimed at others?

OR when we have wronged others?

Colossians 3:13 - Bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive.

Ephesians 4:32 - Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.

What does forgiveness look like when lived day to day from another’s offense?

Matthew 18:22-35

Forgiveness means taking what we think should be their penance or punishment, and turning that over for God’s judgment or control. This can be in each instance that the thought of their wrong comes up.

Forgiveness does not look like forgetting the trespass. Instead it looks like forgiving their sin against us, then if there is hope for reconciliation trust but be rebuild. Forgiveness does not mean no accountability. oooo

Forgive and get on with life attitude, how this can be toxic?

James 3

Titus

There is no reason in this world to forgive someone for these awful things, but there is a reason outside of this world.

What is sin that we need forgiveness?

It isn’t necessarily the ugly evil in the world. God sees us in our horrendous circumstances, and wants to desperately rescue us from this horror. Forgiveness covers everything that is mankind’s separation from God.

Old

2 Samuel 13

Psalm 103 - Bless the Lord, O my soul,And all that is within me, bless His holy name.

2 Bless the Lord, O my soul,And forget none of His benefits;3 Who pardons all your iniquities,Who heals all your diseases;4 Who redeems your life from the pit,Who crowns you with lovingkindness and compassion;5 Who satisfies your [a]years with good things,So that your youth is renewed like the eagle.

6 The Lord performs [b]righteous deedsAnd judgments for all who are oppressed.

7 He made known His ways to Moses,His acts to the sons of Israel.

8 The Lord is compassionate and gracious,Slow to anger and abounding in lovingkindness.

9 He will not always strive with us,Nor will He keep His anger forever.

10 He has not dealt with us according to our sins,Nor rewarded us according to our iniquities.

11 For as high as the heavens are above the earth,So great is His lovingkindness toward those who [c]fear Him.12 As far as the east is from the west,So far has He removed our transgressions from us.

New Testament

Matthew 11:28-30

Romans 5/6

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How should John 14 and 15 pave the way for our prayer life to look?

Similar to what was said in John 14. The Fruit of John 15 is looking more like Jesus and abiding closer to him.

The example of a healthy prayer life is if it is aligned in the will of God. Our prayers look like Jesus’ prayers. We want God’s will to be done.

How should a healthy prayer life look for an abiding believer in Christ?

Let’s look at some of the prayers of the saints in the New Testament:

Lord’s Prayer Matthew 6:9-13

Philippians 1:9-11

Paul’s Prayer Ephesians 3:17-19

2 Corinthians 12

Supplemental scripture to look at:

2 Thessalonians 3:1-5

High Priestly Prayer John 17

How do Christians normally expect God to answer a prayer?

I asked this of one of my groups the other night. Answers: with exactly what I prayed, signs, an audible voice, opening/closing doors, in music, symbology, through others.

Wisdom previous illumination or word of God, standard mind of Christ

Evaluating prayer life in terms of what the Bible shows

What does John 14:13-14 truly mean?

Luke 22

Abiding in the Father, abiding in the son, our prayers

What does it mean to persevere through a trial? How do we know we have done it?

Luke 22 Jesus deeply troubled in garden of Gethsemane. Perseverance through a trial should look like Jesus did, translate my pain into your glory. That I grow more into the image of Jesus. That we trust him, and grow in our faith, that we can handle the next trial more comfortably.

2 Corinthians 12:

What does the outcome and end result look like after a trial?

Romans 8

What does this perseverance do for the life of an abiding believer in Christ?

James 1:

Reminiscing through the last 100 episodes: What’s been your favorite episode and why?

Part 2. The pain and trial:

Many times we experience tremendous pain and grief at the loss in our lives.

Why do we want to avoid the pain?

Avoid sorrow, experiencing discomfort, stuck point to stay away from hurt

Luke 22- discipleship sleeping in the garden to avoid the sorrow.

Why doesn’t He always remove the pain from the loss or trials?

The Exodus

1 Peter 1:5-9

Romans 7

How can we experience the pain, but give it to the Lord?

Jeremiah-Lamentations 3:19

Part 1. The initial outlook:

Looking at loss in life can be difficult. There are many types of loss we may experience:

Loss of significant other, friends, jobs, clout, ability, financial stability, control, or even loss of self identity.

All these cause a varying level of grief in the life of the individual who is going through this. We understand this grief and can see it manifest in many different ways. It may come out through isolation, emotional outbursts, or in how we conduct ourselves each day.

Any time we are in the thick of the situation it is hard to stop and see the potential for God’s work through it. He is there.

What are some ways to see God’s work in difficult situations?

Remembering who God is and what he has done; both in history and in our own lives.

What are some tools or activities we can do to make sure we don’t miss Him in it all?

What does this begin to look like in the life of an abiding believer?

Keeping the eyes and heart fixed on the things above and not on our situation or problems.

We fill our life with the Word of God and life of God. Our new method of thinking becomes the mind of Christ. We start to look, speak, and act more like Jesus.

Elisha and the servant (2 Kings 6:8-19)

King David and Goliath (1 Samuel 17:4-37)