Episodes

  • Episode 056: Curtains

    Episode 056: Curtains
    Sep 30 2024
    In this insightful episode, Michael opens up about the side effects he's experienced from his ADHD medication. Join him and Lou as they explore their differing views on strangers discussing medication and the impact of mental health on daily life.

    Lou shares a humorous story about sliding into a celebrity's DMs—only to face rejection. The conversation takes a deeper turn as they address behind-the-scenes challenges in their podcast collaboration, highlighting the dynamics of their working relationship.

    As Lou dives into his Internal Family Systems (IFS) work, he reveals new aspects of himself that emerge when witnessing loved ones engage in self-destructive behaviors. He also candidly discusses his struggle with dissociation during parts work, while Michael confronts his discomfort in these emotional discussions.

    Listen in for a raw and honest dialogue about ADHD, medication, personal growth, and the complexities of relationships. Don’t forget to follow us for more episodes on mental health and self-discovery! #ADHD #MentalHealth #Podcast #PersonalGrowth #IFS #Medication #SelfAwareness #Relationships #SelfDestructiveBehavior #MentalWellness

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    44 mins
  • Episode 055: Cutie Pie

    Episode 055: Cutie Pie
    Sep 23 2024
    Michael has noticed that he used to be hot but now he's just cute. Lou doesnt care. Michael talks about the Ask Matrix and how his time with his new therapist is starting out.

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    42 mins
  • Episode 054: Clarification

    Episode 054: Clarification
    Sep 16 2024
    Michael clears up a few things (a lot of things) from Episode 051 with regards to public perception, Snapchat and other things. Lou made a joke in therapy that didn’t land. Lou painted his toenails. Lou feels weak and embarrassed for missing his partner and had an uncomfortable conversation with her about it.

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    51 mins
  • Episode 053: The Break Up

    Episode 053: The Break Up
    Sep 9 2024
    We talk about a break-up…

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    43 mins
  • Episode 052: The Wire

    Episode 052: The Wire
    Sep 2 2024
    Michael explores the impact of ADHD on his life, highlighting how it enforces a strict schedule due to executive dysfunction. He shares his struggles with all-or-nothing thinking and his pursuit of the ideal. Meanwhile, Lou, who is not usually fond of activities, reflects on his recent EMDR therapy sessions related to his past relationship and former partner. He discusses overcoming anxiety and wonders if it's time to share his personal story.

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    42 mins
  • Episode 051: Validation

    Episode 051: Validation
    Aug 26 2024
    Lou got a vasectomy and afterward played a joke on his girlfriend. Michael’s words are not matching his actions in areas of his life… specifically with women. Michael’s continued struggle with boundaries might have made him a f*ck boy. How old is too old to have Snapchat? Okay but is Michael a f*ck boy or no? Michael is still addicted to validation but he really doesn’t want to be.

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    58 mins
  • Episode 050: Belong

    Episode 050: Belong
    Aug 19 2024
    Michael and Lou delve into a thought-provoking discussion about communication and emotional challenges. Michael recounts a transformative family trip to the woods, where he faced miscommunication, lack of empathy, and emotional misalignment. He reflects on how his past frustrations surfaced during this experience. Lou shares insights from his own experiences with "verbal one-night stands," offering valuable lessons learned about the impact of words. Together, Michael and Lou explore the power of words and how they can sometimes be unintentionally hurtful. Michael also opens up about feeling isolated and misunderstood, especially within his family dynamics.

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    40 mins
  • Episode 049: Helpless

    Episode 049: Helpless
    Aug 12 2024
    Lou recaps a compelling text from the podcast hotline, leading to a candid discussion about relationship expectations, accountability, and the hope for partner change. Lou shares his struggle with naming his feelings and reflects on a challenging situation that left his girlfriend heartbroken and its impact on him. Lou revisits childhood memories from Little Louie to explore why vengeance has been a key motivation for him. Learn about the surprising source of comfort Lou sought as a child and its influence on his emotional journey.

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    46 mins