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Betrayal cuts deep. Whether you're the one who strayed or the one left reeling from a partner's infidelity, that moment fractures everything you thought you knew about your relationship. But here's the truth many don't want to acknowledge: recovery isn't just possible—it happens more often than you might think.

This episode dives straight into the messy, painful process of rebuilding trust after infidelity. We explore why it's typically not the cheating itself that destroys relationships, but the dishonesty that follows. Research consistently shows that post-betrayal healing hinges on radical transparency from the unfaithful partner—what Dr. Shirley Glass calls bringing down walls and opening windows between partners.

We break down the practical steps that successful couples take: establishing a six-month period of complete honesty, understanding the neurobiological impacts of betrayal through predictive coding, and becoming "boringly reliable" to create safety. You'll learn why couples therapy provides crucial structure during this vulnerable time, helping both partners explore not just what happened, but the underlying why. Most importantly, we discuss why rebuilding trust isn't about restoring what was, but co-creating something entirely new—a relationship where both partners feel truly seen and secure.

Whether you're currently navigating the aftermath of infidelity or supporting someone who is, this episode offers science-backed guidance without judgment or platitudes. Recovery takes time (typically 18-24 months), consistent effort, and the courage to be honest—not just with your partner, but with yourself. Come join me online to continue the conversation about creating healthier relationships through understanding, compassion, and truth.

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Forget everything you think you know about vaginal stretching. This practice isn't about shock value or pornographic stunts – it's a profound journey into bodily autonomy, psychological surrender, and reclaiming sexual power on your own terms.

We dive deep into the misunderstood world of stretching, revealing how this practice connects to something primal yet deeply personal. For many practitioners, stretching represents an embodied rebellion against shame, allowing them to literally and figuratively expand beyond societal constraints. There's a special kind of empowerment in saying "I can open and stay open because I want to" – a celebration of the body's remarkable resilience and adaptability.

The episode offers practical wisdom alongside philosophical insights. You'll learn specific manual techniques for gentle stretching, the importance of proper toy progression (never increasing by more than a quarter inch at a time), and why quality materials and lubrication are non-negotiable for safe play. We explore the differences between stretching styles – from plug wearing to interval training approaches – while emphasizing that this journey isn't about endurance but invitation. Perhaps most importantly, we discuss how breath work, visualization, and nervous system attunement create the headspace where true pleasure flourishes.

Whether you're toy-curious or already exploring the expansive edges of your pleasure, remember that stretching isn't about ruining anything – it's about reclaiming everything. Your body isn't a prize to protect from size; it's a powerful, adaptive marvel capable of extraordinary sensation.

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Have you ever questioned why we limit romantic love to just one person when we don't apply the same restrictions to friendships, family relationships, or parental love? This thought-provoking episode with sexologist Kate Campbell challenges everything you thought you knew about relationship structures.

We dive deep into what polyamory actually means—and what it doesn't. Forget the stereotypes of commitment-phobic people or hypersexual escapades. Polyamory (poly = many, amory = love) is about creating multiple committed, loving relationships with consent and communication at the core. Kate shares her journey from skepticism to embracing polyamory, realizing that what society taught her about "finding the one" never quite fit her authentic self.

The conversation tackles jealousy head-on, reframing it not as a relationship killer but as an opportunity for growth. When someone in a polyamorous relationship feels jealous, they're encouraged to explore why—what insecurity or fear lies beneath the surface? This practice creates emotional intelligence that monogamous relationships might never develop simply because they avoid these triggering situations altogether.

We explore fascinating parallels between relationship structures and other aspects of identity. Many neurodivergent individuals find polyamory aligns better with how they naturally form connections. We discuss the problematic double standards (why is a man with multiple female partners seen as powerful while a woman with multiple male partners is questioned?), the historical roots of monogamy in patriarchal control systems, and the practical considerations of time management and sexual health.

Whether you're polycurious, happily monogamous, or somewhere in between, this episode offers valuable insights about communication, emotional intelligence, and expanding your capacity for love. As Kate beautifully puts it, "Love is not a finite resource—you get more by giving more and having more."

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Feeling curious about surrendering control in the bedroom? You're far from alone. That quiet desire to be sexually submissive isn't just common—it's backed by science as one of our most natural human urges.

The research speaks volumes: over 60% of women and 50% of men fantasize about being dominated, making submission more popular than roleplay, group encounters, or even exhibitionism. But why does giving up control feel so appealing? When we submit consensually, something remarkable happens in our brains—cortisol levels drop, endorphins surge, and many experience a flow state similar to what athletes describe during peak performance. For those carrying the mental load of constant decision-making in their daily lives, submission offers not weakness, but profound relief.

Men especially might question these desires in a culture that equates masculinity with dominance. Yet there's powerful strength in vulnerability—in saying "I trust you completely" to a partner. Studies from 2021 reveal something fascinating: couples who engage in consensual power exchange report significantly higher levels of intimacy and trust. This isn't about being less; it's about creating space to be more—more authentic, more connected, more present in your pleasure.

Healthy submission always begins with consent and communication. Whether it's light restraint or deeper power dynamics, the paradox is that clearly defined boundaries create freedom to explore. Your submission might look entirely different from someone else's—and that's exactly as it should be. The only "right way" is the way that honors your authentic desires while prioritizing mutual respect and safety.

Ready to explore this side of yourself? Follow me on Instagram or YouTube at Super Sex Podcast or Jordan Walker Sexology for more evidence-based insights that challenge everything you thought you knew about sexuality. Your pleasure isn't just normal—it's powerful. Stay curious, stay kind, and remember: it's perfectly fine to stay just a little filthy.

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Dive into the profound world of fisting – a practice that goes far beyond what many consider "extreme" or "fringe." This episode challenges us to rethink our assumptions about intimacy, pleasure, and connection through the lens of a practice that demands extraordinary trust and communication.

Drawing from Chris Barcelos' groundbreaking 2023 academic paper, we explore how fisting represents not just a sexual act but an entire epistemology – a way of knowing and being with others that defies conventional sexual scripts. When we look deeper, fisting emerges as a radical form of pedagogy, where knowledge passes through communities rather than institutions, centered on consent, care, and pleasure.

What makes this practice particularly revolutionary is how it inverts traditional sexual values. Unlike the fast, goal-oriented approach often celebrated in mainstream sexual culture, fisting demands slowness, patience, and constant checking in. It asks participants to be fully present, to prioritize connection over performance, and to embrace vulnerability as a pathway to pleasure. Even during the AIDS crisis when it was heavily stigmatized, fisting persisted as both a source of joy and a symbol of resistance within queer communities.

Whether you're curious about expanding your sexual horizons or simply interested in new frameworks for thinking about intimacy, this episode offers valuable insights. The principles at the heart of fisting – radical communication, mutual care, and challenging normative boundaries – apply far beyond any specific sex act. They remind us that sometimes our most profound connections come when we slow down, get curious, and allow ourselves to go deep.

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Imagine walking into a sex store and finding not just toys, but a whole education on pleasure waiting for you. That's the world Nikki Kelly invites us into in this eye-opening conversation about what really happens behind the counter at adult stores.

Nikki isn't your typical sex educator—she's a spreadsheet-wielding analyst who approaches pleasure with both passion and precision. Her detailed breakdowns of product categories, from bullet vibrators to air pulse technology, transform how we understand these tools. We learn why some toys work better than others, how marketing language often misleads consumers, and what questions actually matter when selecting products for yourself or a partner.

The conversation shatters common myths about sex shops and their clientele. Contrary to what many assume, women make up the majority of customers in many stores, often shopping in groups and turning the experience into a normalized social activity. Meanwhile, we explore why men frequently shop online instead, highlighting how shame and discomfort still shape our relationship with pleasure.

Perhaps most enlightening is the discussion about size preferences and what women actually purchase. Research and sales data tell a story vastly different from what pop culture suggests, offering a reality check that could transform how partners communicate about pleasure. Throughout, Nikki emphasizes that sex toys aren't competitors to human connection but collaborative tools that enhance intimacy when approached without ego or insecurity.

Whether you're curious about the latest innovations in pleasure technology, wondering what questions to ask before making a purchase, or simply want to understand your own or your partner's body better, this conversation offers frank, funny, and deeply informative insights that will change how you think about pleasure forever.

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The journey of reconnecting intimately after welcoming a child is a struggle so many couples face in silence. When desire fades and bodies feel unfamiliar, both partners can find themselves adrift in frustration and confusion, unsure how to rebuild what once came naturally.

Through one listener's painfully honest question, we explore the science behind postpartum desire and why intimacy often takes a backseat after baby. The reality? Your diminished sex life isn't personal rejection—it's biology at work. With 83% of new mothers reporting little to no desire months after birth, these changes represent a normal phase rather than a permanent relationship shift.

I break down the mechanics of desire using the car metaphor: there's an accelerator (turn-ons) and brakes (turn-offs). After childbirth, a woman's brakes are firmly engaged by physical discomfort, hormone fluctuations, and extreme fatigue. No amount of pressing the gas pedal will move forward if those brakes remain locked. The path back to connection starts with gently easing those brakes—creating safety, reducing pressure, and rebuilding non-sexual intimacy first.

We explore responsive desire (feeling aroused only after positive stimulation begins), the importance of lubrication, and practical ways to rebuild connection outside the bedroom. For partners with higher desire, I offer compassionate strategies to manage frustration while supporting recovery. From hormonal realities that temporarily suppress libido to communication approaches that foster emotional safety, this episode provides a roadmap for navigating one of parenthood's most challenging transitions.

Whether you're in the thick of postpartum disconnection or supporting someone who is, tune in to understand how intimacy can indeed return—with patience, care, and a willingness to discover new forms of connection along the way. Subscribe, share your experiences, and remember that this challenging phase will eventually shift with the right understanding and support.

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Curious about going big? This candid exploration of extreme size play delivers everything you need to know about venturing beyond typical bedroom toys. Whether you're intrigued by supersized dildos, fisting, or just something a bit more substantial than average, we break down the facts without judgment or unnecessary alarm.

Let's address what everyone worries about first: yes, there are legitimate risks to consider. The delicate tissues of both vagina and anus can experience microtears, muscle strain, or even infection when play becomes too intense or hygiene practices lapse. We candidly discuss the real concerns while separating fact from fear-mongering. That common worry about prolapse? We tackle that head-on with medical reality rather than urban myths.

The heart of this episode focuses on practical safety strategies that dramatically reduce these risks. From the non-negotiable importance of quality lubrication to the gradual progression that respects your body's limits, we outline a comprehensive approach to safer size play. Learn why body-safe materials matter, how proper gloves protect both partners, and why aftercare deserves as much attention as the act itself. We compare vaginal and anal considerations, highlighting their different anatomical realities and safety needs.

Beyond the physical aspects, we emphasize that consensual kink exploration is a valid expression of sexuality deserving of respect, not shame. Our approach combines pleasure-positive encouragement with responsible guidance, including suggestions for finding kink-aware healthcare providers who can offer judgment-free support. Ready to explore your desires with confidence? This episode equips you with the knowledge to chase those big thrills safely, smartly, and on your own terms. Remember – it's not about pushing limits, but expanding pleasure with awareness and care.

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