• How To Keep Showing Up For Business (And Life) Even When You’re Exhausted
    Apr 4 2022
    I’m willing to bet that at some point you’ve felt too exhausted to follow through on your goals. Right now, as I deal with being pregnant, I know this feeling all too well. But just because you have a lot going on that’s preventing you from showing up the way you want to, doesn’t mean that there’s nothing to be done about it. Today, I’m sharing what you can do when you find yourself stuck in one of these energetic ruts. Showing Up When You Just Don’t Have the Energy I certainly don’t have the same energy I did before this pregnancy. I imagine that this won’t end after the baby comes. Whether it’s pregnancy or something else, you’ve likely felt something like this. As an entrepreneur, I have to keep showing up for my business and life no matter how I feel. I have four different things, or Ds, to share that can help when you’re feeling tired or exhausted. Deleting or Delegating What You Don’t Need to Do The first thing to do is delete. By this I mean remove from your life those things that don’t need to be done. A lot of the things that overwhelm us are the things we choose to do. Many times, these are things are unnecessary. So think about your priorities and where you can really put your energy. If something takes your energy but doesn’t feel like an actual priority, then delete it from your to-do list. Sometimes there are things you would like to delete that still have to be done. This is where delegation comes in. Whether it’s chores around the house or a task within your business that doesn’t need your oversight, delegating it to someone else can help you focus your limited energy where it’s truly needed the most. Make a Decision and Drop Your Resistance The next thing is deciding what is most crucial to be done. I find that making decisions like this can be extremely tough. Often, we waste a ton of time and energy just trying to make up our minds about how to do something. Instead, just making a plan and sticking to it is the way to actually make meaningful progress. In the end, we are more productive when our energy is focused on just a few things, or maybe even one thing. Finally, learn to drop the resistance you feel to circumstances beyond your control. I know we often want to do it all, but that’s a recipe for frustration. Resistance is usually mental and it shows up as wanting the current reality to be different. Yet, when we accept what can’t be changed and drop that resistance, the frustration and sadness at how we feel will disappear, freeing up more energy. What has helped you get through challenging times? Leave a comment on the episode page! In This Episode Dealing with the uncertainties that come with a season of exhaustion [5:30]The difference between exhaustion and burnout [10:30]Deleting what you can remove from life that doesn’t need to be done [14:15]Delegating to free up your time and energy [23:10]Deciding what is the most important thing for you to do [34:00Dropping the resistance to what’s outside your control [44:30] Quotes “Sometimes we’re in seasons that we don’t have an end date for. Honestly, more often than not, we don’t have an end date for it.” [6:30] “Take the things out of your schedule and your life, at least temporarily, that don’t have to be done to really conserve your energy for the things that do.” [23:00] “If you’re not in a season like I’m in right now, you're probably going to be in one at some point. You don’t want to wait until you’re exhausted and don’t have the energy to do what needs to be done to then start hiring a team.” [29:37] “The more that we can just accept our circumstances the way that they are, the less energy we’re going to waste trying to fight them.” [52:49] “If you can run your business when your energy is depleted, just imagine the kind of success you can have when your energy comes back to a higher level.” [58:45] Review Fed and Fearless on Apple Podcasts! Send a screenshot of your review to hello@lauraschoenfeldrd.com or send me a DM on Instagram and I’ll send you my Overcoming Undereating eBook. If you post your favorite episode in your Insta stories and tag me @LauraShoenfeldRD, I’ll also send you my 14-Day Calorie Challenge Recipe Guide! Links Get your FREE Profit Planning Workbook! The One Thing by Gary Keller and Jay Papasan Essentialism by Greg McKeown Leave a review of Fed and Fearless! Sign Up For The Free Training: The 5 Secrets of Fearlessly Healthy Women of Faith Learn more about business coaching with me Got a question you’d love to hear me answer on the show? Leave me a voice message here! Join the Fed and Fearless Society on Facebook Follow me on Facebook | Instagram | Twitter | Pinterest Podcast production & marketing support by the team at Counterweight Creative Related Episodes Episode 108: 7 Questions to Ask Yourself if You’re Experiencing Burnout Episode 125: What to Do When You’re ...
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  • What To Do When You’re Feeling Overwhelmed
    Mar 7 2022
    Time and time again, I hear nutrition entrepreneurs talk about how they feel overwhelmed. That’s why, for this episode, I’m sharing a clip from one of my coaching calls inside of the Nutrition Accelerator Program. When this topic comes up, I work to help reframe the feeling of overwhelm so that we can all take back the power we have and move forward with confidence. What We Really Mean When We Say We’re Overwhelmed It’s important to really understand what we’re saying when we say that we’re overwhelmed. When you boil it down, we’re saying that we feel we can’t achieve our goals given the time we have. But the things that we believe we need to do are often the things we’ve chosen. I’ve found from addressing my own overwhelming situations that this simple switch in thinking goes a long way. I accept that there might be aspects of a task I won’t get done. Recognizing that I don’t have total control over everything is freeing. Anything that I accomplish is a win when I’m working towards the goals that I have chosen to set for myself. Shifts to Make When You’re Overwhelmed When you are starting to feel a sense of overwhelm, I want you to do the following. Start by asking yourself what you can still be proud of even if you don’t reach all your goals. This will help you relax some of your expectations and accept that whatever you do, it will still be enough. Furthermore, don’t fall into the trap of setting unnecessary deadlines. Assess when tasks actually need to get done so you’re not creating unneeded pressure. Comparisons also lead to overwhelm. Everyone’s progress is different. You’re not falling behind just because someone is ahead of you. These mindset shifts center on not getting too far ahead of yourself. Focus on the task at hand. Take a step forward and see what happens. You can, and should, always reassess as you go, but you don’t need a complete picture from the start. This avoids the trap of trying to figure it all out before you’re ready to begin. How can you reframe your feelings about an overwhelming situation you’re in? Leave a comment on the episode page! In This Episode Shifting your mindset to recognize your accomplishments in an overwhelming situation [5:50]Questions to ask yourself when you feel overwhelmed [12:00]Integrity as the key to balancing the different pressures in your life [19:45] Quotes “When we say that we feel overwhelmed, what we’re really saying is that we don’t believe we can do what we need to do in the time that we have.” [6:34] “If you’re feeling overwhelmed, ask yourself what exactly you are overwhelmed about. You could actually be creating overwhelm that doesn’t need to be there.” [13:32] “You didn’t get into entrepreneurship to be told what to do. You go into it for freedom, to be creative, to do the work you want to do. You have to learn to make your own decisions to do that successfully.” [19:28] Review Fed and Fearless on Apple Podcasts! Send a screenshot of your review to hello@lauraschoenfeldrd.com or send me a DM on Instagram and I’ll send you my Overcoming Undereating eBook. If you post your favorite episode in your Insta stories and tag me @LauraShoenfeldRD, I’ll also send you my 14-Day Calorie Challenge Recipe Guide! Links Get on the Nutrition Accelerator Program Waitlist! Leave a review of Fed and Fearless! Sign Up For The Free Training: The 5 Secrets of Fearlessly Healthy Women of Faith Learn more about business coaching with me Got a question you’d love to hear me answer on the show? Leave me a voice message here! Join the Fed and Fearless Society on Facebook Follow me on Facebook | Instagram | Twitter | Pinterest Podcast production & marketing support by the team at Counterweight Creative
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