The Skies We’re Under

By: Born at the Right Time
  • Summary

  • Nurse, author and Director of Born at the Right Time, Rachel Wright talks to fellow parents of people with disabilities and others in their community. With the power of story telling, laughter, swearing and useful information they create solace in knowing the warts and all truth of this off piste version of parenting. Whether a well seasoned parent, newbie, one of many practitioners supporting families or simply someone wanting to peak over the fence - you’re welcome to listen in. We are better together, whatever Skies We’re Under.
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  • A Heart Full of Love - Grandparents | S4 | E6
    Oct 2 2024

    Join Rachel and Sarah for Season 4, Episode 6 of 'The Skies We’re Under' podcast.

    Today they are joined by two more wonderful ladies, who also happen to be their mums: Jan Hooks and Liz Goldsmith. They talk about how life turned upside down for them alongside their children.

    In this moving episode, Sarah and Rachel also discuss a summer which has seen both of them facing some significant changes to their households, especially Rachel. There is also a recurring theme of getting pets as a form of coping with life throwing sh*t at you.

    Thanks to the lovely folk at Medequip for sponsoring this week's episode. Medequip is the leading provider of community equipment services to local authorities and the NHS across the UK, delivering a wide range of equipment and support to people in their own homes, keeping people independent for longer. You can find more about them and their work here.

    If you'd be interested in sponsoring an episode of The Skies We're Under, please contact us at TSWUpodcast@gmail.com.

    We’d love to hear from you – we love sharing stories, we love hearing how things are going, the good, the bad, the snotty-crying ugly.

    You can leave a message with us in a number of ways:

    • Firstly you can leave a message using speakpipe here: SpeakpipeTSWU

    (Please note calls need to be limited to 90 seconds)

    • You can send us a voice note from your phone to our email address at tswupodcast@gmail.com
    • Or, if the thought of hearing your own voice gives you ‘the ick’, then send us an email to tswupodcast@gmail.com

    Whatever way you choose to get in touch, we really want to hear your thoughts, views, musings, rants and confessions (we love a confession!) .

    Thanks for listening and being a part of our podcast community -It would make our day if you could like, follow and review the podcast wherever you listen.

    Follow us on Instagram @BornatRightTime. Head to www.bornattherighttime.com to find a parent workshop or CPD-certified training for practitioners in communication, collaboration and personalised care with parents/carers.

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    53 mins
  • Foster Carers - Sharing Lives with Dave May | S4 | E5
    Sep 25 2024

    CONTENT WARNING - This episode contains discussions about Fostering; Children With Difficult Childhoods; Mental Health Issues and Life Limiting Conditions. If this will be difficult for you to listen to, please choose another episode.

    Rachel is joined by Lucy today, as they continue to explore families and the different forms that families take.

    In particular they focus on fostering, and how that can feel from both a fostered child’s perspective, and that of a foster carer. They are joined by Dave May, listener to the podcast, father to two daughters, very proud Grandad and a foster carer for two decades.

    Dave talks through the experience of both short term and long term placements, his family’s experience of fostering disabled children and moving from fostering to shared lives when children reach adulthood.

    Dave reflects on the additional complexity when fostering disabled children and the wealth of experience gained from fostering 27 children. He also shares his top ‘Sh*t Things Practitioners Say’ (We told you he was a fan of the podcast!)

    For more information on shared Lives, and Fostering, please follow the links below:

    Shared lives information

    Fostering network

    We’d love to hear from you – we love sharing stories, we love hearing how things are going, the good, the bad, the snotty-crying ugly.

    You can leave a message with us in a number of ways:

    • Firstly you can leave a message using speakpipe here: SpeakpipeTSWU

    (Please note calls need to be limited to 90 seconds)

    • You can send us a voice note from your phone to our email address at tswupodcast@gmail.com
    • Or, if the thought of hearing your own voice gives you ‘the ick’, then send us an email to tswupodcast@gmail.com

    Whatever way you choose to get in touch, we really want to hear your thoughts, views, musings, rants and confessions (we love a confession!) .

    Thanks for listening and being a part of our podcast community -It would make our day if you could like, follow and review the podcast wherever you listen.

    Follow us on Instagram @BornatRightTime. Head to www.bornattherighttime.com to find a parent workshop or CPD-certified training for practitioners in communication, collaboration and personalised care with parents/carers.

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    39 mins
  • Those Dads Look Like Me | S4 | E4
    Sep 18 2024

    Join Rachel for Episode 4 of The Skies We’re Under podcast, this week we’ve swapped out two Mum’s in exchange for two Dads (Brendan Jones and Tim Wright) - to get a different perspective on life as a parent of a disabled child.

    Whilst they cover many well trodden paths: the pain that can come with comparison, rubbish message delivery and the clanger of ‘special children get special parents’ they illustrate a slightly different story.

    Brendan and Tim focus on the difficulties of adjusting the life you had imagined, to the life you have whilst dealing with the traditional roles that Fathers often (but not always) fulfil. From focussing on practical support, to ‘making up’ on the weekends, they consider the ways that stereotypically male ways of coping, can both help, and hinder.

    There is plenty of reflection on finding the right communities of support around us, including the fantastic charity 'Unique', to how to talk to those who ‘get it’ and those who don’t, and just how sometimes you need to just get away from it all.

    We’d love to hear from you – we love sharing stories, we love hearing how things are going, the good, the bad, the snotty-crying ugly.

    You can leave a message with us in a number of ways:

    • Firstly you can leave a message using speakpipe here: SpeakpipeTSWU

    (Please note calls need to be limited to 90 seconds)

    • You can send us a voice note from your phone to our email address at tswupodcast@gmail.com
    • Or, if the thought of hearing your own voice gives you ‘the ick’, then send us an email to tswupodcast@gmail.com

    Whatever way you choose to get in touch, we really want to hear your thoughts, views, musings, rants and confessions (we love a confession!) .

    Thanks for listening and being a part of our podcast community -It would make our day if you could like, follow and review the podcast wherever you listen.

    Follow us on Instagram @BornatRightTime. Head to www.bornattherighttime.com to find a parent workshop or CPD-certified training for practitioners in communication, collaboration and personalised care with parents/carers.

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    52 mins

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Mrs Chapman

This podcast is everything I’ve wanted to hear for years. Hearing parents in a similar position validating the emotions we feel, situations we’ve lived through and most of all it made me REALLY laugh. Well done to all. It can’t be easy finding time in your lives to put this together but it’s made my days brighter and I can’t wait for another season.

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Don’t call me mum

I’m a mum of a little lady 5 who has special needs I love this podcast it really resonates, with the struggles, and it’s uplifting knowing other people are in the same boat. I love the don’t call me mum chat I never thought about it now I’m fuming lol I will not be called this again! Im still listening laughing crying and enjoying thanks Ladies x

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Absolutely brilliant

I have laughed, I have cried, I have felt seen and heard. I had no idea how complicated life raising a disabled child is until I was unexpectedly in this situation.
I feel less alone, inspired by those that have been doing this for longer and more informed about what support my child is entitled to vs what I am told by "professionals".
A must listen for anyone connected to SEND and even for those wanting to understand the human experience more broadly.

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