Attachment styles — we all have them, and they can impact our relationships, for better or worse. It’s helpful to know which one you are, so you can better navigate how you connect with others. In this week’s episode, the internet’s big sis Toni breaks down the different attachment styles, how to tell them apart, and how you can even change yours. Producer Annisha and Toni also dive into your dilemmas during Tea Time with Toni, helping to solve your biggest problems.

Got a dilemma of your own and need some big-sis wisdom? Send it to toni@tonitoldmepod.com or slide into the DMs on Instagram @tonitoldmepod.

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Toni is joined by Aurelie — a mum of three, author, and aspiring content creator — for a real chat about long distance relationships (something Toni knows all about). They’re sharing tips, laughs, and what actually helps when you’re miles apart. And of course, it’s not an episode without Tea Time with Toni, where they dive into your juicy dilemmas and spill a little tea along the way.

Got a dilemma of your own and need some big-sis wisdom? Send it to toni@tonitoldmepod.com or slide into the DMs on Instagram @tonitoldmepod.

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Self-sabotage — why do we do it?! Toni dives deep into the habits that hold us back, with honest insights, real-life stories, and her signature humor. And of course, she’s tackling your trickiest dilemmas in Tea Time with Toni — no filter, just real talk.

Got a dilemma of your own and need some big-sis wisdom? Send it to toni@tonitoldmepod.com or slide into the DMs on Instagram @tonitoldmepod.

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In support of the UK's Mental Health Awareness Week, this special episode is dedicated to helping you navigate life’s challenges.Toni is joined by psychologist Dr. Jade to unpack your dilemmas, offer practical advice, and hopefully ease some of the mental load. Whether you're struggling or simply need a little clarity, you're not alone—and we’re here to help.

If you or someone you know is finding things difficult, please don’t hesitate to seek support. Visit Mind for resources and help. Got a dilemma of your own and need some big-sis wisdom? Send it to toni@tonitoldmepod.com or slide into the DMs on Instagram @tonitoldmepod.

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Not everyone deserves a seat at your table — and some are just there to eat. In this episode, Toni breaks down the biggest red flags in friendships and why being selective with your circle is essential. From spotting fake friends to checking your own behaviour, this is the real talk you didn’t know you needed. Plus, your juiciest dilemmas get answered in this week’s Tea Time with Toni — no filter, just facts.

Got a dilemma of your own and need some big-sis wisdom? Send it to toni@tonitoldmepod.com or slide into the DMs on Instagram @tonitoldmepod.

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April brings new beginnings...and sometimes heartbreak. Toni breaks down April Theory — why so many major changes (including breakups) seem to happen this month. She’s answering your breakup dilemmas and sharing her best tips to help you bounce back stronger than ever. New season, new you — let’s get into it.

Got a dilemma of your own and need some big-sis wisdom? Send it to toni@tonitoldmepod.com or slide into the DMs on Instagram @tonitoldmepod.

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You always have high expectations for your 20s—after all, they’re the first decade of adulthood. Toni and her guest Rocky unpack what that chapter of life really looks like. Does everyone actually have it all figured out? Is it everything it’s cracked up to be? Plus, in this week’s Teatime with Toni, they tackle a big dilemma: what do you do when you’re ready to start dating, but dating apps aren’t your vibe?

Got a dilemma of your own and need some big-sis wisdom? Send it to toni@tonitoldmepod.com or slide into the DMs on Instagram @tonitoldmepod.

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Overthinking is the silent killer of productivity, happiness, and potential. It can leave you feeling stuck, overwhelmed, and mentally drained. In this episode, Toni gets real about her own struggles with overthinking and dives into why our minds spiral, how overthinking can show up in sneaky ways, and most importantly—how to stop it. Plus, she’s back with your listener dilemmas in this week’s Teatime with Toni—you won’t want to miss it.

Got a dilemma of your own and need some big-sis wisdom? Send it to toni@tonitoldmepod.com or slide into the DMs on Instagram @tonitoldmepod.

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