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Why, Dad?

Why, Dad?

By: Andrew Stolpestad Paul Wandrey
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Andrew, an aspiring dad, and Paul, a dad of two, dig deep to find out what it means to be/become the best dad possible, why it matters, and how to do so.2024 Why, Dad? Parenting & Families Relationships
Episodes
  • Parenting on Empty: Why Showing Up Still Matters
    Jun 17 2025

    🔑 What We Talk About:
    Why “being there” isn’t always easy, but it always matters
    How dads carry pressure to fix things instead of just be there
    The pilot-in-turbulence metaphor that redefined Nick’s parenting mindset
    Learning to shift from resentment to gratitude in daily chaos
    Accepting failure and showing your kids that love is consistent, not perfect

    💥 This Week’s Challenge:
    Next time you walk into chaos after a long day, take a breath. Instead of trying to fix everything, try just being present — tired, imperfect, but available.

    🎧 Listen & Subscribe:
    Find Why, Dad? on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you stream your podcasts.
    Follow us on Instagram @whydadpod for real dad talk, one post at a time.

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    1 hr and 8 mins
  • How Do You Give What You Don't Have? Taking Care of Yourself to Take Care of Your Kids
    Jun 3 2025

    What We Talk About:
    🧠 Why mental health maintenance (not just crisis response) is essential
    🥦 How nutrition, sleep, and blood sugar affect emotional regulation
    🏋️ The connection between movement, play, and showing up well as a dad
    🧃 Why your discipline slips when your energy does
    💬 Modeling emotional health for your kids by doing your own inner work
    🎯 Letting go of shame and starting small when building healthy habits

    Quotes from the Episode:

    “We think discipline is about our kids—but we need it for ourselves first.”
    “You can’t regulate your kid’s nervous system if yours is shot from no sleep and four donuts.”
    “Therapy isn’t a fix button. It’s maintenance for the mind.”

    This Week’s Challenge:
    Take inventory of one area: sleep, nutrition, movement, or emotional processing. What’s one step you could take this week to support your health so you can better support your family?

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    50 mins
  • Raising Whole Humans With Jon Fogel
    May 20 2025

    🔑 What We Talk About:
    👴 Parenting for 40, not just for 18
    ⚖️ Punishment vs. consequences — and why they're not the same
    🧠 Why the best parenting moments happen after the meltdown
    🎯 How to raise kids who love learning and trust their own reasoning
    📚 What we get wrong about grades, homework, and school
    🤐 Why discipline in the moment usually fails
    💬 How to model curiosity and emotional regulation as a parent

    📚 Resources & Mentions:
    Jon’s Book: Punishment-Free Parenting

    Jon’s Site: wholeparentacademy.com

    Viktor Frankl – Man’s Search for Meaning

    Topics touched: gentle parenting, emotional development, AI and learning, curiosity in education

    💥 This Week’s Challenge:
    Try not reacting in the moment.
    Instead of disciplining during a meltdown, wait until everyone’s calm — then connect, ask questions, and parent from a place of intention.

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    Find Why, Dad? on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen.
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    50 mins
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