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before we break up again. with Alfie Brown and Jessie Cave

before we break up again. with Alfie Brown and Jessie Cave

By: Alfie Brown and Jessie Cave
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 Alfie Brown (disgraced comedian) and Jessie Cave (Trollied, Sky One) are a couple and this is their podcast. Both experts in self-excavation and unvarnished conversation, this podcast is an exercise in trying to get to the route of something, however uncomfortable it might be.Copyright 2025 Alfie Brown and Jessie Cave Parenting & Families Relationships Social Sciences
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  • The couple writhe in the heat. BWBUA #19

    The couple writhe in the heat. BWBUA #19
    Jun 20 2025

    After having been separated for the night, the couple speak on forced ice cream purchases and the love of a van.

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    53 mins
  • Sexy hotel room special turns suddenly into crying. BWBUA #18

    Sexy hotel room special turns suddenly into crying. BWBUA #18
    Jun 13 2025

    You find us in the midst of the Luteal phase this week, the sexy hotel special does not go to plan.

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    56 mins
  • Tennis, recriminations and the appropriate use of 'willy'. BWBUA #17

    Tennis, recriminations and the appropriate use of 'willy'. BWBUA #17
    Jun 6 2025

    Alfie Brown and Jessie Cave are back. Discussions of tennis precede some deeper and indeed more shallow reflections.

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    1 hr and 2 mins
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I've been such a big fan listening to every episode, but just don't feel aligned in the way you're both talking about Alfie's "cancellation". you both continuously distance yourself from the impacts and implications of Alfie's racism. it doesn't feel that either of you have done deep work understanding your own fragility, whiteness or how you've absorbed systematic racism. instead you want to focus on others who used the same language or jokes, and justify Alfie as being "really great", which isn't necessary.

I have really enjoyed listening until now, but as someone working in racial justice, you both appear to be incredibly self absorbed and focussed in centering yourselves.

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