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Shift

How to Manage Your Emotions so They Don’t Manage You

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By: Ethan Kross
Narrated by: Ethan Kross
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Whether it’s anxiety about the dentist, boiling rage when we’re stuck in traffic or devastation after a painful break-up, our lives are filled with situations that send us spiralling. But as difficult as our emotions can be, they are also a superpower. When they’re activated in the right ways and at the right time, they function like an immune system, alerting us to our surroundings, telling us how to react to a situation and helping us make the right choices.

But how do we make our emotions work for us rather than against us? Acclaimed psychologist Dr Ethan Kross has devoted his scientific career to answering this question. In Shift, he dispels common myths – for instance, that avoidance is toxic or that we
should always strive to live in the moment – and provides a new framework for shifting our emotions so they don’t take over our lives.

Shift weaves groundbreaking research with riveting stories of people struggling and succeeding to manage their emotions – from a mother whose fear prompted her to make a spur-of-the-moment decision that would save her daughter’s life mid-flight to a nuclear code-carrying Navy SEAL who learned how to embrace both joy and pain during a hellish training activity. Dr Kross shows us that we already have access to a wide array of tools and demonstrates how to harness them to be healthier and more successful.

Filled with actionable advice, cutting-edge research and inspiring stories, Shift puts the power back into our hands, so we can control our emotions without them controlling us – and help others do the same.

'For anyone who has wondered whether they'll ever be in charge of their emotions, this book has the answer: yes' - Angela Duckworth, author of Grit

'This book does much more than make sense of emotions – it breaks new ground on how to manage them' - Adam Grant, author of
Think Again

'A revolutionary guide to mastering your emotional life' – Charles Duhigg, author of
Supercommunicators

©2025 Ethan Kross (P)2025 Penguin Audio
Editors Select Emotions Neuroscience & Neuropsychology Personal Development Personal Success Psychology Psychology & Mental Health

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Practical and compelling, with a basis in science that is easy to understand and apply

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Useful, helpful, liberating . I happen to read it in a time that I was challenged with a hardship, it helped with shifting my emotions. It is helping still, when the hardships stop coming to life anyway

Good book to read and reread!

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